urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover My not So Vida Loca drakkens_lover 2008-09-06T18:53:06Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:2016 2008-09-06T18:53:06Z 2008-09-06T18:53:06Z Wow its been a while since i wrote in here. so much going on....well me and mom are finally moving out of my gramma's house and into our own place...yeah yeah i know..im almost 30 and i live with my mom...aw shut it! lol i love the new house...but one of our neighbors drives me nuts...she's mentally disabled so i know she cant help it. anyway so much to do....PEACE urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:1587 2007-07-12T02:17:36Z 2007-07-12T02:17:36Z my sister had a baby june 21. gosh its been awhile since i updated this thing. urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:1299 2007-02-19T18:34:23Z 2007-02-19T18:34:23Z blue collar comedy tour well its been a while since i posted. since the last time i posted my sister has found out she is pregnant with a boy. we are all thrilled. not much else happening which is good. my sister and her friend are talking again which is good so everything is back to normal. urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:1056 2006-09-05T21:18:46Z 2006-09-05T21:18:46Z thunder and rain we have suffered a terrible loss. Stever Irwin aka The Crocodile Hunter was killed in an accident with a sting ray. he will be greatly missed. i fee like the rug has been pulled out from under me. my heart is broken at the loss of one of my favorite people and my thoughts and prayers are with his family urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:778 2006-07-19T17:11:56Z 2006-07-19T17:11:56Z maybe it was memphis- pam tillis I am so upset. My baby garter snake Skeeter died. he was so little and so cute. i have only had him like two weeks or so. i dont know why he died but i miss him. i may get another baby but i dont know. at least i have my ball python Argo and her buddy Chance to keep my spirits up. Chance isnt mine, he belongs to a friend. i am going tomorrow to get rats so i will look at baby snakes when i go. urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:587 2006-07-16T02:21:46Z 2006-07-16T02:21:46Z listening to the TV Its a boy. we were all wrong. the ultrasound proved that it was a boy. we could see the "parts" very clearly. but not everything is 100% her eldest was supposed to be a girl the whole nine months. saw the little "taco" turns out its was a hotdog. haha. but i am very happy. mom is coming home tomorrow and i am glad because my grandmother is still driving me crazy. oh well i am off to bed soon. urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:drakkens_lover:505 2006-07-14T01:36:45Z 2006-07-14T01:46:00Z none This is my first entry on my first time on Live Journal so those of you reading, Bless you for taking time to read this. I apologize if it sucks. Such is my life. Anyway, My mother is heading to Charlotte, NC for the wedding of her best friend's son. I have known this particular family all of my life and her kids and i grew up together so its an emotional time for me. I am heading to my best friend Dana's house for her 4-D ultrasound on her third child. I am very excited about this. Not only am i going to be a godmother for the third time, i actually get to see the baby while it's in the womb. I am hoping for a girl but as long as its healthy i don't care. Dana and her husband John already have two boys whom i love my own children. I don't think they quite understand the whole concept of pregnancy but they understand that their mother has a baby in her tummy. Let me clue you in on the rest of my life and family. My father has been dead almost a year and its so fresh in my mind that its not funny. My mother, while very understanding irritates the hell out of me without trying. she teaches the profound mentally challenged class at the local high school so she has to have a lot of patience, just not with her family. my sister has moved out to live with her boyfriend brian. i am the only one in my family who is happy about this. the reason being that the events surrounding my father's death center on her boyfriend. my father was bi-sexual and he tried to take advantage of brian when he was passed out. so her bf would hit him. i cant say that i blame him. my father was also a severe alcoholic and he had been drinking for 4 days strait without food. brian hit him when they were fighting over beer but it was only to keep him from drinking any more. my father came to my house and spent the night. he fell in the bathroom that night as well. the next morning he was unconscious and had to be transferred by helicopter to the hospital. the doctors said that he wouldn't make it through the night and that he was unresponsive to all the stimuli they had given him. he was not quite brain dead but he was close. dana and i stayed close to the hospital that night. the next morning we had agreed on not resuscitating if his heart stopped. my father died later that afternoon. all this time, brian had been arrested. initially i was mad at him but after i had calmed down i knew without a doubt that the fall in the bathroom was what had killed him. the next step was to convince everyone else. my sister and Dana already were thinking the same thing. eventually brian was let out of jail on aggravated assault and battery instead of manslaughter. so in my grandmother and aunt's mind, brian killed him. the rest of us know better, except for mom. she is staying out of this. she and dad had been divorced for a while. my grandmother is 82 and is senile. she drives me crazy because she thinks everything in this house is her business. i know that we should move out. but right now that is not possible.